# Arbeit mit gaP

1. [Hilfe - ich war übergriffig, was jetzt?!](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/books/leitfaden-transformative-gerechtigkeit/page/hilfe-ich-war-ubergriffig-was-jetzt)
   - Übersetzung vom Engl. auf Deutsch mit Tipps/Vorschlägen für Menschen, die mit ihrem übergriffigen Verhalten konfrontiert werden.
   - 10 specific suggestions for people who get called out

2. [Helping Others Get Help](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/books/leitfaden-transformative-gerechtigkeit/page/helping-others-get-help)
   - English resource from the Book Men's Work by Paul Kivel
   - what does it mean to support a man who's been violent
   - what are my preconditions to be able to help a violent man
   - exercise with reflection questions

3. ["gender oppression - abuse - violence"](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/attachments/50)
   - Section 2: Naming the Abuse (p. 8)
     - what is oppression
     - Tools for maintaining gender oppression (p.11)
     - list of opposites of accountability (p.13-15)
   - Section 6: Note for Abusers and Supporters 4.1 Konsens lernen
   - Reflexionsfragen zu Konsens p.6-9 4.2 learning good consent
   - reflection questions about consent p.37, 44, 55; in the PDF p.3-5

5. Philly stands up: [A stand up start up - confronting sexual assault with transformative justice](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/attachments/51)
   - how to start a group (p. 3)
   - Philly Stands Up - Points of Unity
   - Language explanations
   - Our Approach & Analysis
   - Sustaining OUrselves, Sustaining Each Other
   - Takings Risks: Implementing Grassroots Community Accountability Strategies

6. [Creative Interventions](https://www.creative-interventions.org/): [Creative Interventions Toolkit - A Practical Guide to Stop Interpersonal Violence](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/attachments/52)
   - Intro & FAQ about the Toolkit
   - basics on Interpersonal Violence & imporant lessons about Violence Intervention
   - Taking Accountability: How Do We Change Violence? including real life stories (p. 311-360)
   - Tips for Seeking a Therapist p. 562-571
   - lots of tools -> section 4.F taking Accountability Tools

7. Paul Kivel: "Men's Work: How to Stop the Violence That Tears Our Lives Apart", 1992
   - book about stopping violence in men

8. [What about the rapist?](https://wiki.aktivismus.org/attachments/53)
   - Ten Pitfalls of Community Accountability Processes (p.38-61)
   - Alternative Approaches (p.73-80)

> on another note:
> Das Handbuch Transfomrative Gerechtigkeit - Selbstorganisierte Umgänge mit Konflikten und zwischenmenschlicher Gewalt, Herausgeber*innenkollektiv UmGäng
> hat ebenfalls Kapitel zur Arbeit mit gewalterfahrenen & gewaltausübenden Personen
> 1. In die Praxis (S.102-161);
> 2. Unterstützung für gewalterfahrene Personen (S.162-216);
> 3. Arbeit mit gewaltausübenden Personen (S.218-255);